eyes of a therapist or a problem nieprzepracowanej aggression This blog is due to become familiar with the publications of journalists (including M. Magierowskiego, K. Kłopotowskiego) on post-election rhetoric, Jaroslaw Kaczynski. The comments posted by them seems to indicate that many of them have problems with accepting the assertive speech President PiS-u (or Mr. Brudzińskiego) Smolensk on the disaster. The angry tone of these people here for journalists is a source of insecurity, which seems to induce in them a number of defense mechanisms, ranging from denial, through fantasies about the collapse of Polish, PiS, and dispositions "suicide" himself Kaczynski. They believe that taking advantage of a given rhetoric does Jaroslaw Kaczynski shot in the foot. With each day, with every spoken word, it loses any chance of winning the forthcoming parliamentary elections. In their eyes, Kaczynski is a rhetoric of war, conflictual, is focused on skłócanie Poles. All for what will be the camp is threatening Jaroslaw Kaczynski - is the source of decay, disintegration and fragmentation of the "ego" Polishness. By publishing a critical assessment of the proceedings of Jaroslaw Kaczynski, the "pure kindness" are pushing for him to stop war rhetoric.
Gdy czytam wypowiedzi tych dziennikarzy, odnoszę wrażenie, że większość z nich dotknięta jest syndromem Dorosłych Dzieci Alkoholików.To, co rzuca się w oczy terapeuty, to ich ogromny lęk przed agresją. Agresja dla nich to coś bardzo złego, destrukcyjnego, niszczącego. Kojarzy się z licznymi awanturami i przemocą. Tak jakby słowa Jarosława Kaczyńskiego uruchamiały w nich engramy (ślady pamięciowe) z ich własnych doświadczeń, wyniesionych z rodzinnego domu.
W mojej opinii, wielu Polaków (w tym dziennikarzy, polityków, a nawet psychologów, sociologists) have not worked a problem with his aggressiveness. It is necessary to be aware that the measure of the return to health of the patient, and therefore the signal goes to the end of therapy, is that an individual is not afraid of their own and others' aggression, it is able to accommodate it in himself that he is able to accept it. Meanwhile, journalists have the characteristics of a strange even to the slightest hyperresponsiveness anger Kaczynski. Often attribute to him the importance of some pathology of character / personality, something very dangerous, he can threaten to collapse: is that the Kaczynski, whether the Polish society. Like I heard the sentences spoken in a number of Polish families (neurotic, often alkoholicznych): "Do not be angry! What are you angry? , "" Anger is a bad "," J estes evil / bad. When you're angry, acting like a madman, who loses control of himself and is dangerous for the environment "," Anger harms Beauty, "" Look at your twisted face, when you're angry. How it looks rude. You ugly / ugly when you're angry. "These messages, which prohibit feeling and expression of negative emotions, it's straight to the suppression and displacement of aggression, which ultimately leads to disease and violence.
public debate is dominated by the rhetoric of the current many families alkoholicznych - "truth and emotion sweeping under the rug", "hide from the world of family pathology," "freezing feelings, especially anger and rage." Many journalists, and even psychologists, anger, and anger is associated with family quarrels, violence, destruction and decay. Many of them behave as if she was not aware that there are different forms of aggression, aggression is not only the destruction and damage. Aggression can be constructive or destructive. Healthy aggression is one that demands the truth, evil-is that which destroys. "The truth will set you free", the password is also often quoted in the training psychoanalitycznych.Tymczasem pojęć.Domaganie journalists blur the boundaries to be performed on screening, or settlement of Donald Tusk's government for the disaster Smolensk, demanding a fair investigation to be conducted to clarify the air disaster, in which killed the head of state, often associated with paranoia, fission, fragmentation, disintegration of the "collective ego.
set more journalists, including the Commonwealth, that the assessment of forms of expression adopted by Jaroslaw Kaczynski, guided by such pseudo feedback teoretyzujących academic psychologists, who themselves often give a distorted picture of reality through their own unresolved conflicts, the original, learned from their homes, often alkoholicznych. Prevent them form of communication J. Kaczynski, because any malice, or anger interfere their own parents, now their children - academic psychologists - they reproduce the pathological forms of conflict resolution, using scientific terms, communicate to the diagnosis of pseudo-journalists, distorted their own projection (projection identification). As learned in families alkoholicznych suppress our emotions, and now would like to suppress them in others and, as with politicians, Kaczynski and among many Poles, who are demanding settlement of Communists, and now politicians OP for being led to disaster in Smolensk!
How big is sometimes a discrepancy between statements of psychologists and journalists to uncritically replicate the views and opinions of the first psychotherapists, can provide even a speech of Sophia Milski-Wrzosińskiej on lustration in Poland, these are excerpts from GW, reprinted by the "Arcana"
" January 27 - On pages 8 and 9 talk with psychologists from the Laboratory of Psychoeducation. Sophia says Milska-Wrzosińska: "Formal message -" we will not settle "- is in conflict with a sense of injustice. Most Poles lives with a sense of wasted years, the non-execution (...). And here it is proposed to them to be generous toward people who are still on them in a better position, in addition, achieved at their expense. (...) The possibilities of the common man almost nothing has changed, though he has not suffered such a relief to a few people in its immediate vicinity has been settled. Atonement human injustice does not necessarily hate the sea rozpętywać: illusion is that if these acts do not make justice, not hatred. Will, only much less controlled. "Zofia Milska-Wrzosińska:" Many people would not experience excessive anger, anger, frustration - have become indifferent, to freeze up. But this can not be done selectively: indifferent to the stupid boss or poisoned the air, and remain open to the joy, love, constructive combat ... Akhmatova once said about two Rosjach that will have to look at each other's eyes: the one who sat in the camps, and this that the camps wsadzała. We are trying to look myself in the eye to avoid. "
So please compare the statement of Sophia Milski - Wrzosińskiej with the statements of Professor. Reykowskiego or psychologists to "Characters" who have seen the policy of the paranoid Kaczynski ways of thinking. So why the difference in perception of reality? Well, difference is that the former passed his therapy, and the latter - they are totally deprived of the ability to inspect.
not count, therefore, journalists and academic psychologists omnipotentni that how you will suppress the emotions of politicians, PiS whether the rest of society, criticizing and dewaluując their feelings that the conflict will disappear and there will be the language of love. Such magical thinking, can express only the alcoholics and their children. And the fact that many Poles (including psychologists, esp. Academics) has been demonstrated this style of thinking, and This not only at the level of political life, may confirm the owner of many therapeutic surgery.
In summary, one of the main problems of many Poles (politicians, journalists, sociologists, and psychologists) are not worked a conflict with his own aggression. Fear of our own and others' aggression, a symptom that should be treated, not stifle. Denying him the design for Jaroslaw Kaczynski, is your problem and do your pressures and pressure. Law and Justice party is autonomous and independent and does not care about what they say or how they fall in the eyes of their unfriendly environments. They are not dependent on the personality of the syndrome of the DDA, but healthy people, who cry out for healthy and normal to Poland.
PS. This blog is dedicated to
the psychologist Norbert Maliszewski
